This guidebook, titled Healing Through Play Using the Oaklander Model, serves as an essential companion for therapists and counselors working with children, adolescents, and families. Developed by Violet Oaklander, this resource aims to enhance your therapeutic practices, particularly for those who have participated in her esteemed training program. However, prior participation is not a requirement to benefit from the valuable insights presented within.

Violet Oaklander, renowned for her impactful workshops, has trained countless child and adolescent therapists worldwide. Her two-week intensive sessions, held in beautiful Santa Barbara, California, are well-regarded for their transformative nature. These workshops continue to thrive in various locations, including Santa Monica, where Karen Fried leads the training, along with other venues facilitated by trained professionals like Lynn Stadler and Peter Mortola.

The guidebook outlines Violet’s foundational principles and offers classic experiential exercises designed for therapeutic use. It begins with an introduction to the Oaklander model, covering essential topics such as how to conduct a first therapy session and the importance of considering developmental factors in young clients. Understanding these elements is crucial for establishing a solid therapeutic relationship.

One of the key aspects of Violet’s approach is her emphasis on a young client’s ability to establish contact, both inwardly and outwardly. The guidebook provides detailed explanations on how to assist children and adolescents at any developmental stage in developing healthy contact functions. This process not only strengthens their sense of self but also fosters resilience and emotional intelligence.

Moreover, the guidebook addresses the often-challenging emotions that arise during therapy, particularly the universal yet frequently misunderstood feelings of anger and aggressive energy. By adopting Violet’s insights, therapists can navigate these emotions more effectively, leading to productive sessions.

To support therapists in their practice, the guidebook walks you through a variety of projective techniques that Violet has found to be highly effective. Techniques such as the Safe Place and Rosebush drawings, along with hands-on activities involving clay, sand trays, and puppetry, are elaborated in detail. These methods not only engage young clients but also provide them with powerful tools for self-expression and understanding.

As therapy progresses, the guidebook also introduces the concept of self-nurturing, which often emerges toward the end of the therapeutic journey. Violet’s insights on developmental issues related to termination are invaluable, equipping therapists with the knowledge needed to navigate this critical phase of therapy.

Violet Oaklander’s wisdom, knowledge, and profound love for young people permeate every aspect of this guidebook. It serves not only as a practical tool but also as a source of inspiration for therapists dedicated to helping children and adolescents thrive. We invite you to explore and enjoy using this guidebook, as we have thoroughly enjoyed composing it for your benefit.